FAMILY COMES FIRST, FRIENDS SECOND. THAT'S COOL

.IN THE NAME OF ALLAH MOST GRACIOUS MOST MERCIFUL.

oh well, our topic today is BORIING.

i know, i know.

but what the hell, my blog!

read the tag line please and repeat it trice. baru a'fdal.

it is usual for people like us, ok, me,

get carried away with the awesomeness of the world.

ok, what do i mean?

what i mean is that when you are at this stage of you know,

getting to know the world,

which car is better,

subway or mcD,

manU or liverpool, duuuuhhhh!!! manU la weyh!

this stage where me and you explore the world.

at this age we do learn and do lots of experiments in every decision we made.

which literally will sometimes make us move apart from family.

the one that will continuously be our back bone.

at this period of age, 

most of our time spend are mostly with friends.

why?

let me tell you exactly why.

we are a student aite. at least i am.

so, when we have class 5 times a week and live in that luxury hostel,

we 100% commit our selves to that world where friends

play the role of ' i am the shoulder to cry if you have any problems'.

why don't we do the math together.

5 times a week makes 20 days a month.

and if you are not being a homesick 20 year old,

we will basically spend the whole 3 to 4 month with your friends.

so, it will just kill me if you say that you are not close with your friends.

i suggest you to live somewhere around the woods.

at least you will be friends with the fresh air.

eventually, when we are that close with friends,

family will always comes in second place.

not that they didn't studied that hard, but i don't know.

sometimes, we have to make decision like this,

"KAKAK TOMORROW WE ARE GOING TO PICNIC"

"WHERE?"

"AIR TERJUN SUNGAI GABAI"

"ERR, DISGUSTING LAH SUNGAI ITU, I THINK IM GONNA HANG OUT WITH MA FRIENDS"

" ALAH 1 DAY JE PON. POSTPON LA YOUR PLAN WITH YOUR FRIIENDS"

"PFFT! NO WAY! DAH LAMA PLAN KOT"

"YELAH TAPI PICNIC NI FROM LAST MONTH LAGI DAH PLAN. AND YOU AGREED ON IT"

" PICNIC BILA2 PON KITA BOLEH PERGI MA"

"SO DOES YOUR PLAN WITH YOUR FRIENDS"

"MA, SKALI SKALA AJE JUMPA KAWAN TAW. TAK PE LAIN KALI KITA PERGI LA SAMA2"

this dialog has nothing to do with anybody. originally created 10 seconds ago.thanx to life drama.

ok, so, sometimes we do get caught in this situation.

apahal geleng-geleng? 

we met with our friends every single days! i really mean it EVERY SINGLE DAYS!

yet, we never had enough.

not that we can't meet them at all but do consider your family.

family are a group of people that we love that barely meet us during weekends.

of course lah not even weekdays.

they do miss us a lot although they do not express it in words.

you know Malaysian are less expressive.

don't take their weekends from them.

not fair to them nor to you.

family is your everything in every single way,

.YOUR BACK BONE.

.YOUR STRENGTH.

.YOUR COOLER PAD.

.YOUR TISSUES.

.YOUR PILLOW.

.YOUR ANTI-BIOTICS.

.YOUR PAIN KILLER.

.YOUR MAP.

.YOUR TOUCH LIGHT.

.YOUR HUNNY BUNNY TEDDY BEARS.

.YOUR BANK NEGARA.

.YOUR COMPASS.

and mostly family is

.THE GROUP OF PEOPLE THAT WILL BE WITH YOU THROUGH THICK AND THIN.

trust me family will never run away from your problems.

they will always have solutions for every mess in your life.

they will never forget to hand you hands if you are about to slip down.

they don't judge you even if you are the worst kids ever alive.

and they know you more than anyone in this world.

so, hang in there.

remember when we sisters always fight.

i mean me and my sisters.

we usually went to the kitchen and pull each others hair.

at that time i felt like knocking her to the fridge and freeze her inside the ice box.

but 10 minutes later we got back together and start planning 

how to make our parents to shop us with brand new cloths.

well, see,see, that is family.

however, friends please don't hate me

for making you guys running in 2nd.

it is still cool to be second. not that bad huh.

kalau periksa nombor 1,2,3 dapat barbie.

the thing is, friends are the replacement of the family part you know.

human can't live alone.

we do have feelings and this feelings need to express very well.

blog usually won't do much.

i do believe that there are certain issues that you are not ready

to point out to your family maybe because it is to i don't know.

so, friends do play and important role at this moment.

or maybe when you are away from family,

friends are the one who entertain you. they do.

only that this is how the sequence goes.

be sure of choosing a good friends.

good friends do exist,

why fall for the bad one huh?

and bad friends do exist.

it is way cooler if we are able to balance these both world.

family and friends.

it is ok to say no to your friends sometimes.

no harm occur.

and it is ok to hang out STARBUCKS sometimes with friends.

there are no rule which prohibits these law.

just make sure the balance is there.

STARBUCKS NAK ROYALTY BOLEH?

alright then.

got it? got it?

till then,

imma heading to ma bed.

it hurts when you need to wake up early in the morning

just to pick your  sister at a boarding school which located almost at the end of north.

WTH, she's ma sister and i love her.

.NURAISYAADRIANA NURALEEYAILLYANA NURRDINANSERENA.

  .AMERSHARIFFUDIN HANITAAHMAD.